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Friday, March 02, 2012

The Cross, Part 2


A second way we can look at the cross is that it represents a clash between two kingdoms:  The kingdoms of this world and the kingdom of God.  Jesus did not get crucified for being a nice guy.  His vision of the way our world should operate was seen as a threat by those who were in power in both church and society.  Therefore, they conspired together and thought they found a way to silence him.  They crucified Jesus and breathed a sigh of relief.  Problem solved.  Check it off the list.
But we know the rest of the story.  The powers of our world who seek to control, destroy and demean, said "no" to Jesus, but God said "yes" and, three days later, Jesus rose from the dead.
This clash of kingdoms still plays out in our world today.  It will come as no big surprise that there are individuals in both church and society who abuse their positions of power and privilege.  There are individuals who seek to move up corporate and societal ladders no matter what the cost to others.  Every time we join them.  Every time we turn a blind eye to their evil deeds, we are guilty of crucifying Jesus all over again.
However, the same is true that every time we confront these powers, upholding the values of love, compassion, mercy, justice and the like, we help to give birth to Jesus' vision of a new way of living in our world.
This socio-political view of the cross makes some people uncomfortable.  However, I don't know how we can read the gospels and not come away with them with the understanding that Jesus wanted us to live life differently than the way we are living it now.
The kingdom parables make it clear that Jesus' envisioned a world where everyone had an equal place at the banquet feast...and, yet, there was still room for more.  Values such as compassion, forgiveness and mercy should be the cornerstone of our life and faith.  We are called to find the lost, feed the poor, welcome the stranger, clothe the naked, etc.
Therefore, the cross of Jesus reminds us that we are called to move beyond belief into action.  We are called to try to bring about Jesus' vision of the kingdom, now.  It's not just something that is reserved for heaven.  We are called to be living signs of the kingdom in a world that would like to silence that kingdom forever.

Thursday, March 01, 2012

The Cross: Part 1


The cross of Christ is essential to our identity as a church and our identity as believers. Yet, in spite of this, Christians are often guilty of reducing the cross to a belief rather than an action or lifestyle.  We ask people "Do you believe  that Jesus died on the cross for your sins?"   Then we settle for a "yes" or "no" answer.
But the cross is more than a simple "yes" or "no" answer.  The cross has the power to transform our lives and our world.  Therefore, at the beginning of this season of Lent I'd like to expand our understanding of the meaning of the cross over the next few posts. My purpose in doing so is to give the cross its full power in our lives and in our world.  So let's get started.
One of the ways we can understand the cross is that it is a symbol of personal transformation.  It represents a rhythm in our lives of dying and rising, of letting go and embracing, of dead ends and new beginnings.
The cross reminds us that there are emotions and thought patterns that are unhealthy for us to continue.  There are habits and actions that harm us rather than help us.
When we look at the cross, it asks us "What do we need to let go of?  What thoughts and actions are keeping us from moving forward?  From experiencing life in all of its abundance?"  "What do we need to embrace?  What new ways of thinking and being in the world will bring blessing and healing to ourselves, our families, and our community?"
This is one of the ways the cross speaks to us.  It offers us a way to move forward in life and experience the love, hope, peace and joy Jesus desires to give all of us.

Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Sing, Sing a Song

Sing to the Lord a new song, for he has done marvelous things. [Psalm 98:1, NRSV]


I have a confession to make. When I was just a wee little lad I absolutely adored Karen Carpenter. [O.K....laugh if you want to, but it's true!] I played my mother's LP records all the time and tried to memorize the way Karen delivered each heartbreaking phrase. I even sang the Carpenter's song "We've Only Just Begun" at a school talent show when I was in first grade. Granted, it's not the most obvious choice for a seven year old to sing but, hey, it worked for me.

Anyway, one of my favorite Carpenter's songs was always "Sing," whose lyrics go like this: "Sing, sing a song. Sing out loud. Sing out strong....Don't worry that it's not good enough for anyone else to hear. Just sing. Sing a song." Little did I know but this song was my first gay liberation anthem. Many more would follow!

The reason why I bring this up is that the Psalm 98 tells us to sing to God a new song. The funny thing about this verse is that the church is usually very hesitant to sing a new song. In fact, it's favorite anthem is 'We've Never Done It That Way Before." It's time for this to change! It's time for LGBT Christians to raise their voices and sing a new song to God. We cannot and will not be silenced anymore! To quote another diva, Mama Cass, "Make your own kind of music. Sing your own special song. Make your own kind of music. Even if nobody else sings along." 

What new song has God placed in your spirit? Don't be afraid to share it with the rest of us!

Monday, February 27, 2012

I Am What I Am

"By the grace of God I am what I am, and God's grace toward me has not been in vain." [1 Corinthians 15:10]

This verse has always leapt off the page for me. It's one of my life verses. When we claim these words as our own, we are saying we've come to terms with ourselves. We know both our limitations and our potential. We've taken a long, hard look at our dark side but we've also encountered God's grace which continues to reshape and transform us each and every day.

To be able to stand before God and say "I am what I am" is a powerful thing. It means that we have value and worth for the person we are now. We feel loved and embraced by God even though we are far from perfect. We have encountered God's grace in our lives which comes as a surprise and a gift. We are God's home improvement project, and we are worth the effort.

As a gay man, I find these words comforting and reassuring. It has taken me a long time to be able to say "I am what I am" and be completely at peace with it. It has also taken me a long time to realize that God is at peace with my sexuality as well. I know God is not wasting God's time on me because I see the fruits of what God is doing in my life and in the lives of those whom I serve. I'm still learning and growing, but I'm also comfortable with where I am now.  God's grace toward me has definitely not been in vain.  I have been blessed beyond measure.  Thanks be to God!

Thursday, February 23, 2012

Youth Resources Wanted

Did anyone watch GLEE this past Tuesday night?  If you didn't catch it then make sure you watch it on hulu.com when they post it.  This week's episode dealt with the subject of teen suicide as the result of bullying both in school and in cyberspace.  I thought they handled the subject wonderfully.


This got me thinking, what great youth resources are you aware of that are available online?  Please give me your suggestions.  I'd like to compose a list on my blog for folks who are looking to support our LGBTQ youth.  Thanks for your input!

Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Remember You Are Dust


"Remember you are dust, and to dust you shall return"

Today is Ash Wednesday, the beginning of Lent. Tonight I will place ashes on the foreheads of everyone in my congregation, from the youngest to the oldest. It is an emotional moment for me because it reminds us that everyones days are numbered. Every person I love, including myself, will cease to exist, at least in bodily form. This stark reality may make some people feel depressed but I find that it gives me perspective. It makes me appreciate the gift of each new day as I try to live each moment to the fullest.

Lent is an important season in the life of all believer, including us LGBT folks. It is a season of letting go and embracing; of turning from habits that are self-destructive and soul sucking and turning toward those activities which build us up in body, mind and spirit. Because of the emotional damage the LGBT community has sustained over the years, especially by well meaning Christians, there are many things we need to let go of: the trauma of spiritual abuse, the hurt we feel because of being rejected by family and friends, unhealthy expressions of sexuality because we weren't able to be open about our orientation, etc.

As we let go of these things, we create space in our hearts and spirits for healthier habits and emotions to take their place: the joy of discovering that God loves us queer folk just as we are, the strength and encouragement we receive when we become part of a faith community that welcomes us and value our gifts, the sense of safety and well-being we feel as we create our own definitions of family and community, etc.

This Lent I hope we will all take the time to both let go and embrace. This can be a wonderful season in the life of a believer. I hope and pray it will be a wonderful season in your lives, my cyber brothers and sisters!

Tuesday, February 21, 2012

The End of Church?

This article appeared on The Huffington Post.com.  It contains a lot of the conversation we've been having at abiding Savior and give us all food for thought as we envision a new Reformation of the Church of Jesus Christ:


Diana Butler Bass,  author, "Christianity After Religion: The End of Church and the Birth of a New Spiritual Awakening" via The Huffington Post.com
The End of Church
Posted: 02/18/2012 7:50 am
Something startling is happening in American religion: We are witnessing the end of church or, at the very least, the end of conventional church. The United States is fast-becoming a society where Christianity is being reorganized after religion.
In recent decades, untold numbers of people have left the Roman Catholic Church. In a 2008 survey, Pew research found that one in 10 Americans now considers themselves an ex-Catholic. The situation is so dire that the church launched a PR campaign inviting Catholics to "come home," to woo back disgruntled members. There was a slight uptick in Catholic membership last year, mostly due to immigrant Catholics. There is no data indicating that Catholics are returning en masse and much anecdotal evidence suggesting that leaving-taking continues. Catholic leaders worry that once the new immigrants become fully part of American society they might leave, too.
The end of church, however, is not merely a Catholic problem. For decades, mainline Protestants have watched helplessly as their membership rolls dwindled, employing program after program to try to stop the decline. In the last 15 years, conservative Protestant denominations have witnessed significant erosions in membership, money and participation -- with some of the greatest drops in groups like the Southern Baptist Convention that once seemed impervious to decline. In a typical week, less than a quarter of Americans attend a religious service, down from the half of the population who were regular churchgoers a generation ago.
There are successful individual congregations -- Catholic or Protestant, mainline or evangelical, liberal or conservative, small or large -- everywhere. But the institutional structures of American religion -- denominations of all theological sorts -- are in a free-fall.
The religious market collapse has happened with astonishing speed. In 1999, when survey takers asked Americans "Do you consider yourself spiritual or religious," a solid majority of 54 percent responded that they were "religious but not spiritual." By 2009, only 9 percent of Americans responded that way. In 10 years, those willing to identify themselves primarily as "religious" plummeted by 45 percentage points.
In the last decade, the word "religion" has become equated with institutional or organized religion. Because of crises such as the Sept. 11 terrorist attacks and the Roman Catholic abuse scandal, Americans now define "religion" in almost exclusively negative terms. These larger events, especially when combined with increasing irrelevance of too much of organized religion, contributed to an overall decline in church membership, and an overall decline of the numbers of Christians, in the United States.
There may be hope, however, regarding the future of faith. Despite worry about the word, "religion," Americans are extremely warm toward "spiritual but not religious" (30 percent) and, even more interestingly (and perhaps paradoxically), the term "spiritual and religious" (48 percent). While "religion" means institutional religion, "spirituality" means an experience of faith. Large numbers of Americans are hankering for experiential faith whereby they can connect with God, the divine, or wonder as well as with their neighbors and that lead to a more profound sense of meaning in the world. 
Maybe Americans once called this "religion," but no more. Americans call it "spirituality."
Some Americans want to be spiritually left alone, without complications from organized religion. But nearly half of Americans appear to hope for a spiritual reformation -- or even revolution -- in their faith traditions and denominations. Congregations that exhibit a vibrant spiritual life embodying a living faith in practical ways succeeding, even in the religion bear market. These sorts of communities are models of what might be possible to renew wearied organizations. But the macro-structures of American faith -- denominations -- have yet to hear this message. They are still trying to fix institutional problems and flex political muscle instead of tending to the spiritual longings of regular Americans.
"Spiritual and religious" expresses a grassroots desire for new kinds of faith communities, where institutional structures do not inhibit or impede one's relationship with God or neighbor. Americans are searching for churches -- and temples, synagogues, and mosques -- that are not caught up in political intrigue, rigid rules and prohibitions, institutional maintenance, unresponsive authorities, and inflexible dogma but instead offer pathways of life-giving spiritual experience, connection, meaning, vocation, and doing justice in the world. Americans are not rejecting faith -- they are, however, rejecting self-serving religious institutions.
The end of conventional church isn't necessarily a bad thing. Christianity after religion, a faith renewed by the experience of God's spirit, is closer to what Jesus hoped for his followers than the scandalous division, politics, and enmity we have now. Will there still be Christianity after the end of institutional religion? Yes, there will be. But it is going to be different than what Americans have known, a faith responsive to the longings of those who are expecting more spiritual depth and greater ethical integrity rather than more conventional church. Indeed, I suspect that the end of church is only the beginning of a new Great Awakening.